The General Overseer, The Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Enoch Adeboye, has counseled that single ladies should not marry a man that has no job. “A man needs to have a steady income, before he can think of marriage, because, it is the duty of a man to provide for the family, so he has to have a steady source of income”.
He also counseled single men not to marry ‘Delilah’ because ‘she will destroy you’.
“My beloveth daughters in the Lord don’t marry a man that has no job.
“Before God gave Adam Eve, he gave him a job, and that job was to manage and keep the garden.
“So, don’t mind men that come to you and say, “Sister, thus saith the Lord, you are going to be the star in my firmament”.
Until you find out what he does, and his vision, don’t marry or settle down with him.
A man needs to have a steady income, before he can think of marriage, because, it is the duty of a man to provide for the family, so he has to have a steady source of income”.
And to single men, Adeboye said: “Don’t marry Delilah, because she will destroy you.
“Don’t marry because of beauty, because beauty always fades and the bible made it clear to us in Proverb 31:30 that beauty is in vain.
“So, that beautiful angelic lady you are going after because of her beauty is going to grow old some days and her beauty will fade away.
“Don’t marry outside the church, because it is better to be single than to get married to the devil.
“Don’t ever think that you can marry someone and then change the person, because you can’t change a person against his or her will.
“So, if he or she is not a child of God, don’t get married to him or her because the Bible warned us not to be equally yoked together with unbelievers.
“Be mindful of who you are settling down with because marriage is a forever thing, so be careful”.